As a born-again Christian (and an Enneagram type One), this word was totally off limits. It was a BAD word. Only BAD people used it.
And I, of course, did not want to be BAD.
I was working really hard to be GOOD, with a Capital G.
But the F-Word held a certain power, a mystique, a “je ne sais quoi.”
After that teenage phase of my life, it slowly found its way into my expression, for better or for worse.
These days, I’m much more interested in the other F-Word.
I bet you know it, but maybe not by this moniker, which I learned from Gabrielle Bernstein.
It actually has many similarities to that first F-Word I mentioned–
It holds great power…
- To open new pathways in our being,
- To affect relationships between people,
- To make a huge impact on communities, our culture, and the world.
Its mystique is well-chronicled…
- Demons lose their power,
- Stuckness mysteriously disappears,
- The heart unfolds.
So, what is this F-Word?
Maybe you have guessed it by now?
I know, it’s a doozy!
We’ll break it down little by little in this series of blogposts, but for now, let’s end with this:
- from Old English: for + gifan = to give
- from Old German: vergeben
- from perdonare, Latin = to give completely without reservation.
To give completely without reservation
Without losing yourself–
- Without giving up,
- Without giving in,
- Without giving over,
- Without compromising your values,
- Without condoning what was done to you or by you.
This requires a soft and open heart, mind, body, and soul.
And in the meantime, I’d LOVE to hear your thoughts thus far!